[# RELATIONS WITH MOTHER [#MOVED INTRODUCTORY TEXT TO ik1 8/6/2001 BBD] >ik1< [define <-3>] [define <-4>] [define <-5>] [define <-6>] [define <-7>] [nodata] Next, I'd like to ask some questions about your relationship with your parents. We will start with questions about your mother. Later I will be asking about your father and then about step-parents you may have lived with. (INTERVIEWER: RELATIONSHIP WITH MOTHER QUESTIONS CAN BE ASKED ABOUT BIOLOGICAL OR ADOPTED MOTHERS, BUT NOT ABOUT STEP-MOTHERS. QUESTIONS ABOUT STEP-PARENTS WILL BE ASKED LATER IN THE INTERVIEW.) (INTERVIEWER: IF MAIN R OR SPOUSE IS FOSTER PARENT, R CAN ANSWER FOR THIS PARENT IN STEP-PARENT SECTION.) @ [@] [#ADDED SKIP IF LIVING WITH MOTHER 8/6/2001 BBD] [if withmom eq <1> goto K5a] [if m is <1> goto K5a] [if mdie is <1> goto k99] [#skip if living with mother] >k1< [##dname = KO164] [##label = freq saw mom last 3 mo] [#changed] [#ADDED DK/R DEFINITIONS 3/21/2001 bbd] [define <-1>] [define <-2>] [missing <-1> <-2>] Over the last 3 months, about how often did you see your mother? Was it not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week? <1> NOT AT ALL <2> LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH <3> 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH <4> ABOUT ONCE A WEEK <5> MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK <7> MOTHER DIED [goto k99] <9> CURRENTLY LIVING WITH MOTHER [goto k5a] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >k2< [##dname = KO165] [##label = freq communicate w/ mom last 3 mo] [#changed] [#e-mail add 8/6/01 dw] [#DO NOT ASK IF LIVING WITH MOTHER 7/2001 BBD] [if withmom eq <1> goto ik3] Over the last 3 months, about how often did you communicate with your mother by telephone, letter, or e-mail? Was it not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week? <1> NOT AT ALL <2> LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH <3> 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH <4> ABOUT ONCE A WEEK <5> MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK <7> MOTHER DIED [goto k99] <9> CURRENTLY LIVING WITH MOTHER [goto k5a] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >ik3< [if k1 is <1>] [if k2 is <1> goto k10] [endif] >iik3< [if k1 is <1> goto ik6a] >k5a< [##dname = KO166] [##label = freq spent time w/ mom last 3 mo] [#changed] Over the last 3 months, about how often have you spent time with your mother in leisure activities, working on something together, or just having private talks? Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week? <1> NOT AT ALL <2> LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH <3> 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH <4> ABOUT ONCE A WEEK <5> MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK <7> MOTHER DIED [goto k99] <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS [goto k10] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ [goto ik6a] >K5a< [##dname = KO167] [##label = freq spent time w/ mom last 3 mo] Next I'd like to ask some questions about your relationship with your mother. [equiv k5a] Over the last 3 months, about how often have you spent time with your mother in leisure activities, working on something together, or just having private talks? Would you say: <1> NOT AT ALL <2> LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH <3> 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH <4> ABOUT ONCE A WEEK <5> MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK <7> MOTHER DIED [goto k99] <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS [goto k10] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >ik6a< [if k2 is <> goto nk6] [if k1 is goto nk6] [if k1 is goto nk6] [if k2 is goto nk6] [if k2 is goto nk6] [if k1 is <-1> goto nk6] [if k1 is <-2> goto nk6] [if k2 is <-1> goto nk6] [if k2 is <-2> goto nk6] >ik6A< [if k1 is <1>] [if k2 is <1> goto k10] [endif] [#item added per Bill, 7/17/01 dw] >nk6< [##dname = KX54] [##label = freq ate meal w/ mom in last 3 mo] [#new] Over the last 3 months, about how often have you had a meal together with your mother? Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week? <1> NOT AT ALL <2> LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH <3> 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH <4> ABOUT ONCE A WEEK <5> MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK <7> MOTHER DIED [goto k99] <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS [goto k10] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >k6a< [##dname = KO168] [##label = disagree w/ mom about dress] In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements about how you dress? <1> YES <2> NO[#PRECODE CONVERSION ITEM k6a 5 = 2] <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS [goto k10] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >ik6b< [if a3 is <1> goto k6c][if a4 is <1> goto k6c] >k6b< [##dname = KO169] [##label = disagree w/ mom about dates] In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements about who you were dating? <1> YES <2> NO[#PRECODE CONVERSION ITEM k6b 5 = 2] <-4> HAVEN'T DATED IN LAST THREE MONTHS <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS [goto k10] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >k6c< [##dname = KO170] [##label = disagree w/ mom about friends] (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements...) ...about your friends? <1> YES <2> NO[#PRECODE CONVERSION ITEM k6c 5 = 2] <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS [goto k10] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >k6d< [##dname = KO171] [##label = disagree w/ mom about job] (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements...) ...about your getting a job or a better job? <1> YES <2> NO[#PRECODE CONVERSION ITEM k6d 5 = 2] <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS [goto k10] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >k6e< [##dname = KO172] [##label = disagree w/ mom about sex] (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements...) ...about your sexual behavior? <1> YES <2> NO[#PRECODE CONVERSION ITEM k6e 5 = 2] <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS [goto k10] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >k6f< [##dname = KO173] [##label = disagree w/ mom about substance use] (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements...) ...about your drinking, smoking, or drug use? <1> YES <2> NO[#PRECODE CONVERSION ITEM k6f 5 = 2] <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS [goto k10] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >k6g< [##dname = KO174] [##label = disagree w/ mom about money] (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements...) ...about money? <1> YES <2> NO[#PRECODE CONVERSION ITEM k6g 5 = 2] <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS [goto k10] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ [#item added per Bill, 7/17/01 dw] >nk6h< [##dname = KX55] [##label = disagree w/ mom about politics] [#new] (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements...) ...about politics? <1> YES <2> NO[#PRECODE CONVERSION ITEM k6g 5 = 2] <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS [goto k10] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ [#item added per Bill, 7/17/01 dw] >nk6l< [##dname = KX56] [##label = disagree w/ mom about religion] [#new] (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements...) ...about religion? <1> YES <2> NO[#PRECODE CONVERSION ITEM k6g 5 = 2] <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS [goto k10] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >ik6h< [if k2 isnt <> goto ik6j] >k6h< [##dname = KO175] [##label = disagree w/ mom about help w/ housework] (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements...) ...about your helping around the house? <1> YES <2> NO[#PRECODE CONVERSION ITEM k6h 5 = 2] <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS [goto k10] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >k6i< [##dname = KO176] [##label = disagree w/ mom about staying out late] (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements...) ...about how late you stay out at night? <1> YES <2> NO[#PRECODE CONVERSION ITEM k6i 5 = 2] <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS [goto k10] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >ik6j< [if a3 is <1> goto k6j][if a4 is <1> goto k6j][goto ik6k] >k6j< [##dname = KO177] [##label = disagree w/ mom about spouse] (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements...) ...about your (wife/husband/partner)? <1> YES <2> NO[#PRECODE CONVERSION ITEM k6j 5 = 2] <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS [goto k10] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >ik6k< [if j1 ge <1> goto k6k][goto nkm] >k6k< [##dname = KO178] [##label = disagree w/ mom about children] (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements...) ...about raising your children? <1> YES <2> NO[#PRECODE CONVERSION ITEM k6k 5 = 2] <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS [goto k10] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ [#item added per Bill, 7/17/01 dw] >nkm< [##dname = KX57] [##label = had enjoyable time w/ mom last 3 mo] [#new] During the last 3 months, how often did you have an especially enjoyable time with your mother? Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week? <1> NOT AT ALL <2> LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH <3> 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH <4> ABOUT ONCE A WEEK <5> MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >k9< [##dname = KO179] [##label = freq disagree w/ mom last 3 mo] [#changed] During the last 3 months, how often did you argue or fight or have a lot of difficulty with your mother? Would you say not at all,less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week? <1> NOT AT ALL <2> LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH <3> 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH <4> ABOUT ONCE A WEEK <5> MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK <-7> HASN'T HAD ANY CONTACT WITH MOTHER IN PAST 3 MONTHS DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >k10< [##dname = KO180] [##label = scale rank of mom child relationship] Taking things all together, on a scale from 0 to 10, where 0 is really bad and 10 is absolutely perfect, how would you describe your relationship with your mother? (INTERVIEWER: ENTER 0-10) DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER @ [@] <0> REALLY BAD <1-9> <10> ABSOLUTELY PERFECT [#items added per Bill, 7/17/01 dw] >nk13a< [##dname = KX58] [##label = freq disagreements w/ mom end in silence] [#new] There are various ways that sons and daughters deal with serious disagreements with their parents. Please tell me how often you do the following when you have a serious disagreement with your mother. How often do you handle disagreements with your mother by refusing to talk about it? Would you say never, seldom, sometimes, often, or always? <1> NEVER <2> SELDOM <3> SOMETIMES <4> OFTEN <5> ALWAYS <6> VOLUNTEERS THAT HAVE NO SERIOUS DISAGREEMENTS [goto k14a] <-7> CONTACT TOO INFREQUENT TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION[goto k14a] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >nk13b< [##dname = KX59] [##label = freq argue w/ mom end-let mom have way] [#new] (Please tell me if you never, seldom, sometimes, very often, or always do the following when you have a serious disagreement with your mother. How often do you handle disagreements with your mother by...) ...letting her have her way without much argument? <1> NEVER <2> SELDOM <3> SOMETIMES <4> OFTEN <5> ALWAYS <6> VOLUNTEERS THAT HAVE NO SERIOUS DISAGREEMENTS [goto k14a] <-7> CONTACT TOO INFREQUENT TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION[goto k14a] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >nk13c< [##dname = KX60] [##label = freq disagree w/ mom end in calm disc] [#new] (Please tell me if you never, seldom, sometimes, very often, or always do the following when you have a serious disagreement with your mother. How often do you handle disagreements with your mother by...) ...discussing your disagreements calmly? <1> NEVER <2> SELDOM <3> SOMETIMES <4> OFTEN <5> ALWAYS <6> VOLUNTEERS THAT HAVE NO SERIOUS DISAGREEMENTS [goto k14a] <-7> CONTACT TOO INFREQUENT TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION[goto k14a] DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ >nk13d< [##dname = KX61] [##label = freq disagree w/ mom end in heated argum] [#new] (Please tell me if you never, seldom, sometimes, very often, or always do the following when you have a serious disagreement with your mother. How often do you handle disagreements with your mother by...) ...arguing heatedly or shouting at each other? <1> NEVER <2> SELDOM <3> SOMETIMES <4> OFTEN <5> ALWAYS <6> VOLUNTEERS THAT HAVE NO SERIOUS DISAGREEMENTS <-7> CONTACT TOO INFREQUENT TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION DON'T KNOW REFUSED @ [#do we want to read neither agree nor disagree? dw] >k14a< [##dname = KO181] [##label = easy to have good time w/ mom] Please tell me if you strongly agree, agree, disagree, or strongly disagree with each of the following statements. It's easy for me to laugh and have a good time with my mother. <1> STRONGLY AGREE <2> AGREE <3> DISAGREE <4> STRONGLY DISAGREE <-4> NEITHER AGREE NOR DISAGREE DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ >k14b< [##dname = KO182] [##label = tense around mom] [#changed] (Please tell me if you strongly agree, agree, disagree, or strongly disagree with each of the following statements.) I feel on edge or tense when I'm with my mother. <1> STRONGLY AGREE <2> AGREE <3> DISAGREE <4> STRONGLY DISAGREE <-4> NEITHER AGREE NOR DISAGREE DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ [goto k14e] [#item deleted per Bill, 7/17/01 dw] >k14c< I am able to discuss disagreements calmly with my mother. <1> STRONGLY AGREE <2> AGREE <3> DISAGREE <4> STRONGLY DISAGREE <-4> NEITHER AGREE NOR DISAGREE DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ >k14e< [##dname = KO184] [##label = mom not interested in child] [#changed] (Please tell me if you strongly agree, agree, disagree, or strongly disagree with each of the following statements.) My mother is not very interested in my life or in what happens to me. <1> STRONGLY AGREE <2> AGREE <3> DISAGREE <4> STRONGLY DISAGREE <-4> NEITHER AGREE NOR DISAGREE DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ >k14f< [##dname = KO185] [##label = mom would like more influence] [#changed] (Please tell me if you strongly agree, agree, disagree, or strongly disagree with each of the following statements.) My mother would like more influence over my decisions. <1> STRONGLY AGREE <2> AGREE <3> DISAGREE <4> STRONGLY DISAGREE <-4> NEITHER AGREE NOR DISAGREE DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ >k14g< [##dname = KO186] [##label = mom is loving and affectionate] [#changed] (Please tell me if you strongly agree, agree, disagree, or strongly disagree with each of the following statements.) My mother is a loving and affectionate parent. <1> STRONGLY AGREE <2> AGREE <3> DISAGREE <4> STRONGLY DISAGREE <-4> NEITHER AGREE NOR DISAGREE DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ >k14h< [##dname = KO187] [##label = mom is critical] [#changed] (Please tell me if you strongly agree, agree, disagree, or strongly disagree with each of the following statements.) My mother is often critical of me. <1> STRONGLY AGREE <2> AGREE <3> DISAGREE <4> STRONGLY DISAGREE <-4> NEITHER AGREE NOR DISAGREE DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ [goto k15a] [#item deleted per Bill, 7/17/01 dw] >k14i< My mother praises or admires things I've done. <1> STRONGLY AGREE <2> AGREE <3> DISAGREE <4> STRONGLY DISAGREE <-4> NEITHER AGREE NOR DISAGREE DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ [# k14j deleted >k15a< [##dname = KO189] [##label = mom feelings about childs schooling] [#changed] How does your mother feel about how well you've done in school? Would you say she is extremely unhappy, somewhat unhappy, somewhat happy, or extremely happy? <1> EXTREMELY UNHAPPY <2> SOMEWHAT UNHAPPY <3> SOMEWHAT HAPPY <4> EXTREMELY HAPPY <-4> NEITHER HAPPY NOR UNHAPPY DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ >ik15< [if h6 isnt <1> goto ik4] >k15b< [##dname = KO190] [##label = mom feelings about steady] [#changed] (Would you say she is extremely unhappy, somewhat unhappy, somewhat happy, or extremely happy?) How does your mother feel about the (boy/girl)friend you're going steady with? <1> EXTREMELY UNHAPPY <2> SOMEWHAT UNHAPPY <3> SOMEWHAT HAPPY <4> EXTREMELY HAPPY <-4> NEITHER HAPPY NOR UNHAPPY <-3> MOTHER DOESN'T KNOW ABOUT (boy/girl)FRIEND DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ >ik4< [if a4 isnt <1> goto ik5] >k15c< [##dname = KO191] [##label = mom feelings about cohab] [#changed] (Would you say she is extremely unhappy, somewhat unhappy, somewhat happy, or extremely happy?) How does your mother feel about your decision to live with a partner without being married? <1> EXTREMELY UNHAPPY <2> SOMEWHAT UNHAPPY <3> SOMEWHAT HAPPY <4> EXTREMELY HAPPY <-4> NEITHER HAPPY NOR UNHAPPY DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ >ik5< [if a3 is <1> goto k15d] [goto k15f] [#deleted "at the age you did", per Bill 7/17/01 dw] [#delete item per lb 8/30/01 dw] >k15d< [##dname = KO192] [##label = mom feelings about marriage] [#changed] [goto k15e] (Would you say she is extremely unhappy, somewhat unhappy, somewhat happy, or extremely happy?) How does your mother feel about your decision to get married? <1> EXTREMELY UNHAPPY <2> SOMEWHAT UNHAPPY <3> SOMEWHAT HAPPY <4> EXTREMELY HAPPY <-4> NEITHER HAPPY NOR UNHAPPY DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ >k15e< [##dname = KO193] [##label = mom feelings about partner] [#changed] (Would you say she is extremely unhappy, somewhat unhappy, somewhat happy, or extremely happy?) How does your mother feel about your choice of a (wife/husband)? <1> EXTREMELY UNHAPPY <2> SOMEWHAT UNHAPPY <3> SOMEWHAT HAPPY <4> EXTREMELY HAPPY <-4> NEITHER HAPPY NOR UNHAPPY DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ >k15f< [##dname = KO194] [##label = mom feelings about job choice] [#changed] (Would you say she is extremely unhappy, somewhat unhappy, somewhat happy, or extremely happy?) How does your mother feel about the occupation or career that you want? <1> EXTREMELY UNHAPPY <2> SOMEWHAT UNHAPPY <3> SOMEWHAT HAPPY <4> EXTREMELY HAPPY <-4> NEITHER HAPPY NOR UNHAPPY DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ >k16< [##dname = KO195] [##label = would talk to mom if depressed] [#changed] How likely is it that you would talk to your mother if you felt depressed or unhappy? Would you say you definitely would not, you probably would not, there's a 50-50 chance you would, you probably would, or you definitely would talk to your mother? <1> DEFINITELY would not <2> PROBABLY would not <3> 50-50 CHANCE <4> PROBABLY WOULD <5> DEFINITELY WOULD TALK TO YOUR MOTHER DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ >k17< [##dname = KO196] [##label = would talk to mom with maj decision] [#changed] (Would you say you definitely would not, you probably would not, there's a 50-50 chance you would, you probably would, or you definitely would talk to your mother?) How likely is it that you would talk to your mother if you had a major decision to make? <1> DEFINITELY would not <2> PROBABLY would not <3> 50-50 CHANCE <4> PROBABLY WOULD <5> DEFINITELY WOULD TALK TO YOUR MOTHER DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ [#this item is a possible add per Bill-delete items per lb 8/30/01] >nk17a< [goto k18a] How likely is it that your mother would talk to you if she felt depressed or unhappy? Would you say she definitely would not, she probably would not, there's a 50-50 chance she would, she probably would, or she definitely would talk to you? <1> DEFINITELY would not <2> PROBABLY would not <3> 50-50 CHANCE <4> PROBABLY WOULD <5> DEFINITELY WOULD TALK TO YOU DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ [#this item is a possible add per Bill] >nk17b< [##dname = KX62] [##label = likelihood mom talk w/ maj decision] [#new] (Would you say she definitely would not, she probably would not, there's a 50-50 chance she would, she probably would, or she definitely would talk to you?) How likely is it that your mother would talk to you if she had a major decision to make? <1> DEFINITELY would not <2> PROBABLY would not <3> 50-50 CHANCE <4> PROBABLY WOULD <5> DEFINITELY WOULD TALK TO YOU DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ >k18a< [##dname = KO197] [##label = mom withhold money] [#changed] There are various ways that parents try to influence the behavior of grown-up children. How likely is your mother to offer or withhold money if she wanted to influence you? Would you say she definitely would not, she probably would not, there's a 50-50 chance she would, she probably would, or she definitely would? <1> DEFINITELY WOULD NOT <2> PROBABLY WOULD NOT <3> 50-50 CHANCE <4> PROBABLY WOULD <5> DEFINITELY WOULD OFFER OR WITHHOLD MONEY DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ >k18b< [##dname = KO198] [##label = mom show hurt or dissapointment] [#changed] (Would you say she definitely would not, she probably would not, there's a 50-50 chance she would, she probably would, or she definitely would talk to you?) How likely is she to show that she is hurt or disappointed? <1> DEFINITELY WOULD NOT <2> PROBABLY WOULD NOT <3> 50-50 CHANCE <4> PROBABLY WOULD <5> DEFINITELY WOULD SHOW THAT SHE IS HURT OR DISAPPOINTED DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER [goto k99] @ [#deleted if she wanted to influence you per js 10/03/01 dw] >k18e< [##dname = KO199] [##label = would talk w/ mom w/ problem] (Would you say she definitely would not, she probably would not, there's a 50-50 chance she would, she probably would, or she definitely would talk to you?) How likely is she to bring up the topic at every opportunity until you go along? <1> DEFINITELY WOULD NOT <2> PROBABLY WOULD NOT <3> 50-50 CHANCE <4> PROBABLY WOULD <5> DEFINITELY WOULD BRING UP THE TOPIC AT EVERY OPPORTUNITY DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> R HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVEMENT WITH MOTHER @ [#item repetative with c30.] [#go to n19 if focal child lives with any of his/her parents or step-parents dw] >n19< [goto k99] [#DO NOT ASK IF NOT LIVING WITH PARENTS] [if withmom eq <0> and withdad eq <0>] [goto k99] [endif] Taking all things together, on a scale from 0 to 10 where 0 is really bad and 10 is absolutely perfect, how does living with your (parents/mother/father) work out for you? (INTERVIEWER: ENTER 0-10) DON'T KNOW REFUSED <-7> HAS ABSOLUTELY NO INVOLVMENT WITH MOTHER @ [@] <0> REALLY BAD <1-9> <10> ABSOLUTELY PERFECT >k99< [#ADDED CHECK FOR DEAD MOTHER 10.16.2001 BBD] [store <0> in mdie] [if k1 eq <7> or k2 eq <7> or k5a eq <7> or K5a eq <7> or nk6 eq <7> or b5 eq <2>] [store <1> in mdie] [endif] [allow 1]