RL92 spent time with focal child When we interviewed your (husband/wife/partner) in (year of last interview), we asked a special series of questions about (focal child). Now we have more questions about (him/her) and (his/her) life. Over the last 3 months, about how often have you spent time with (focal child) in leisure activities, working on something together, or just having private talks? Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week? (The Q name was 'V4x'.) % Freq VALUE 1.0 15 -7 R SAYS THEY KNOW ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ABOUT THIS CHILD 1.9 27 -4 HAVE NOT SEEN CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 0.7 10 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 7.3 105 1 NOT AT ALL 11.0 158 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 29.8 429 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 23.7 341 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 24.6 354 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 2 -2 REFUSED 5 -1 DON'T KNOW 5,831 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL93 spent time with focal child When we talked to you last time, we asked a special series of questions about (focal child). Now we have more questions about (him/her) and (his/her) life. Over the last 3 months, about how often have you spent time with (focal child) in leisure activities, working on something together, or just having private talks? Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week? (The Q name was 'V10a'.) % Freq VALUE 0.8 18 -7 R SAYS THEY KNOW ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ABOUT THIS CHILD 1.6 36 -4 HAVE NOT SEEN CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 1.0 23 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 7.9 182 1 NOT AT ALL 11.7 267 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 26.8 614 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 23.2 532 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 27.0 618 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 7 -2 REFUSED 1 -1 DON'T KNOW 4,979 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL94 had a meal with focal child (Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week?) Over the last 3 months, how often have you had a meal together with (him/her)? (The Q name was 'V10d'.) % Freq VALUE 0.7 25 -4 HAVE NOT SEEN CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 0.0 1 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 13.7 495 1 NOT AT ALL 12.0 431 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 34.6 1,245 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 15.9 571 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 23.2 834 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 5 -2 REFUSED 8 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,662 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL95 disagree about fc dress In the last three months, how often have you and (focal child) had open disagreements about how (he/she) dresses? Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week? (The Q name was 'V14a'.) % Freq VALUE 1.4 52 -4 NO CONTACT WITH CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 0.0 1 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 87.3 3,204 1 NOT AT ALL 5.0 185 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 3.7 136 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 1.6 58 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 1.0 35 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 5 -2 REFUSED 1 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,600 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL96 disagree about fc girl/boyfriend (In the last three months, how often have you had open disagreements about. . .) . . .(his/her) (boy/girl)friend? (Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week?) (The Q name was 'V14k'.) % Freq VALUE 79.0 1,970 1 NOT AT ALL 4.7 116 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 4.2 105 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 1.8 44 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 1.8 45 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 0.2 5 7 NO CONTACT WITH CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 8.4 209 8 HAS NO BOY/GIRL FRIEND 0.0 0 9 CHILD IS DECEASED 11 -2 REFUSED 8 -1 DON'T KNOW 4,764 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL97 disagree about fc friends (In the last three months, how often have you had open disagreements about. . .) . . .(his/her) friends? (Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week?) (The Q name was 'V14b'.) % Freq VALUE 0.1 2 -4 NO CONTACT WITH CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 0.0 0 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 91.3 3,296 1 NOT AT ALL 3.5 126 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 3.0 108 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 1.2 43 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 1.0 36 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 5 -2 REFUSED 3 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,658 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL98 disagree about fc getting/better job (In the last three months, how often have you had open disagreements about. . .) . . .getting a job or a better job? (Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week?) (The Q name was 'V14c'.) % Freq VALUE 0.1 2 -4 NO CONTACT WITH CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 0.0 0 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 83.3 3,003 1 NOT AT ALL 5.1 184 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 6.4 231 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 3.2 115 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 1.9 70 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 6 -2 REFUSED 6 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,660 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL99 disagree about fc sexual behavior (In the last three months, how often have you had open disagreements about. . .) . . .(his/her) sexual behavior? (Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week?) (The Q name was 'V14d'.) % Freq VALUE 0.0 0 -4 NO CONTACT WITH CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 0.0 0 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 95.0 3,412 1 NOT AT ALL 1.9 68 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 2.2 80 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 0.6 20 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 0.3 12 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 8 -2 REFUSED 15 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,662 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL100 disagree about fc drink/smoke/drug use (In the last three months, how often have you had open disagreements about. . .) ...(his/her) drinking, smoking, or drug use? (Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week?) (The Q name was 'V14e'.) % Freq VALUE 0.1 2 -4 NO CONTACT WITH CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 0.0 0 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 85.5 3,084 1 NOT AT ALL 5.0 180 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 6.1 221 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 2.0 73 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 1.3 46 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 7 -2 REFUSED 2 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,662 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL101 disagree about fc money (In the last three months, how often have you had open disagreements about. . .) . . .money? (Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week?) (The Q name was 'V14f'.) % Freq VALUE 0.1 2 -4 NO CONTACT WITH CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 0.0 0 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 76.5 2,757 1 NOT AT ALL 7.5 269 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 9.7 349 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 3.7 134 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 2.6 92 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 8 -2 REFUSED 2 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,664 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL184 disagree about fc politics (In the last three months, how often have you had open disagreements about. . .) . . .politics? (Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week?) (The Q name was 'V14ga'.) % Freq VALUE 0.0 1 -4 NO CONTACT WITH CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 0.0 0 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 92.6 3,336 1 NOT AT ALL 3.7 135 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 2.8 102 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 0.6 21 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 0.2 7 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 6 -2 REFUSED 3 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,666 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL185 disagree about fc religion (In the last three months, how often have you had open disagreements about. . .) . . .religion? (Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week?) (The Q name was 'V14gb'.) % Freq VALUE 0.0 0 -4 NO CONTACT WITH CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 0.0 0 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 85.9 3,093 1 NOT AT ALL 5.7 204 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 6.0 215 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 1.4 51 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 1.1 39 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 6 -2 REFUSED 2 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,667 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL102 disagree about fc help around house (In the last three months, how often have you had open disagreements about. . .) . . .(his/her) helping around the house? (Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week?) (The Q name was 'V14h'.) % Freq VALUE 0.1 1 -4 NO CONTACT WITH CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 0.0 0 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 42.2 294 1 NOT AT ALL 10.5 73 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 20.8 145 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 17.2 120 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 9.2 64 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 2 -2 REFUSED 6,578 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL103 disagree about fc out too late (In the last three months, how often have you had open disagreements about. . .) . . .how late (he/she) stays out at night? (Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week?) (The Q name was 'V14i'.) % Freq VALUE 0.0 0 -4 NO CONTACT WITH CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 0.0 0 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 76.1 530 1 NOT AT ALL 5.9 41 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 9.1 63 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 6.5 45 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 2.4 17 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 2 -2 REFUSED 6,579 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL104 disagree about fc wife/husband (In the last three months, how often have you had open disagreements about. . .) . . .(his/her) (husband/wife)? (Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week?) (The Q name was 'V14l'.) % Freq VALUE 0.0 0 -4 NO CONTACT WITH CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 0.0 0 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 88.1 964 1 NOT AT ALL 5.2 57 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 4.0 44 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 1.6 17 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 1.1 12 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 13 -2 REFUSED 3 -1 DON'T KNOW 6,167 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL105 disagree about fc raising children (In the last three months, how often have you had open disagreements about. . .) . . .raising (his/her) children? (Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week?) (The Q name was 'V14m'.) % Freq VALUE 0.0 0 -4 NO CONTACT WITH CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 0.0 0 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 77.1 914 1 NOT AT ALL 8.4 100 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 8.3 99 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 3.6 43 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 2.5 30 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 14 -2 REFUSED 3 -1 DON'T KNOW 6,074 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL106 avoid talking w/fc about certain topics Sometimes parents and children avoid talking about certain topics because they lead to serious disagreements. Do you avoid talking with (focal child) about topics like politics, money, sex, or religion because it leads to serious disagreements? (The Q name was 'V15a'.) % Freq VALUE 0.0 0 1 YES 0.0 0 2 NO 7,277 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL107 have enjoyable time with fc During the last 3 months, how often did you have an especially enjoyable time with (focal child)? Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week? (The Q name was 'V16a'.) % Freq VALUE 2.5 93 -4 NO CONTACT WITH CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 0.0 0 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 7.3 268 1 NOT AT ALL 12.4 455 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 40.0 1,466 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 20.0 732 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 17.8 652 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 5 -2 REFUSED 5 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,601 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL108 argue/fight/difficulty with fc (Would you say not at all, less than once a month, 1 to 3 times a month, about once a week, or more than once a week?) During the last 3 months, how often did you argue or fight or have a lot of difficulty with (focal child)? (The Q name was 'V16b'.) % Freq VALUE 0.1 2 -4 NO CONTACT WITH CHILD IN LAST 3 MONTHS 0.0 0 -3 CHILD IS DECEASED 79.6 2,846 1 NOT AT ALL 9.9 354 2 LESS THAN ONCE A MONTH 7.0 250 3 1 TO 3 TIMES A MONTH 2.3 84 4 ABOUT ONCE A WEEK 1.1 40 5 MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK 6 -2 REFUSED 1 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,694 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL109 overall relationship with fc Taking things all together, on a scale from 0 to 10, where 0 is really bad and 10 is absolutely perfect, how would you describe your relationship with (focal child)? (INTERVIEWER: ENTER 0-10) (The Q name was 'V17'.) % Freq VALUE 1.3 46 0 REALLY BAD 0.4 13 1 0.4 16 2 0.7 27 3 1.4 52 4 4.5 164 5 3.9 142 6 11.2 411 7 26.0 952 8 26.6 974 9 23.6 863 10 ABSOLUTELY PERFECT 7 -2 REFUSED 9 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,601 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases Min = 0 Mean = 8.168 Max = 10 Std Dev = 1.844 Median = 9 Variance = 3.400 (Based on 3,660 valid cases) RL110 refuse to talk with fc There are various ways that parents deal with serious disagreements with their sons and daughters. For the next series of questions, please tell me how often each of the following happens. How often do you handle disagreements with (focal child) by refusing to talk about it? Would you say this happens never, seldom, sometimes, often, or always? (The Q name was 'V19a'.) % Freq VALUE 3.2 117 -4 R SAYS THEY HAVE NO SERIOUS DISAGREEMENTS 62.0 2,269 0 NEVER 22.7 830 1 SELDOM 9.4 343 2 SOMETIMES 2.0 74 3 OFTEN 0.8 29 4 ALWAYS 8 -2 REFUSED 6 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,601 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL111 letting fc have his/her way (How often do you handle disagreements with (focal child). . .) . . .by letting (focal child) have (his/her) way without much argument? (Would you say never, seldom, sometimes, often, or always?) (The Q name was 'V19c'.) % Freq VALUE 5.4 192 -4 R SAYS THEY HAVE NO SERIOUS DISAGREEMENTS 46.0 1,626 0 NEVER 25.0 885 1 SELDOM 14.5 512 2 SOMETIMES 5.9 210 3 OFTEN 3.1 111 4 ALWAYS 8 -2 REFUSED 15 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,718 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL112 discuss arguments calmly w/fc (How often do you handle disagreements with (focal child). . .) . . .by discussing your disagreements calmly? (Would you say never, seldom, sometimes, often, or always?) (The Q name was 'V19d'.) % Freq VALUE 5.3 176 -4 R SAYS THEY HAVE NO SERIOUS DISAGREEMENTS 8.1 272 0 NEVER 9.2 307 1 SELDOM 15.2 509 2 SOMETIMES 27.2 912 3 OFTEN 35.1 1,175 4 ALWAYS 7 -2 REFUSED 9 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,910 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL113 arguing heatedly/shouting w/fc (How often do you handle disagreements with (focal child). . .) . . .by arguing heatedly or shouting at each other? (Would you say never, seldom, sometimes, often, or always?) (The Q name was 'V19e'.) % Freq VALUE 0.4 12 -4 R SAYS THEY HAVE NO SERIOUS DISAGREEMENTS 72.2 2,295 0 NEVER 18.7 595 1 SELDOM 7.0 223 2 SOMETIMES 1.3 42 3 OFTEN 0.3 10 4 ALWAYS 7 -2 REFUSED 7 -1 DON'T KNOW 4,086 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases Min = -4 Mean = .365 Max = 4 Std Dev = .752 Median = 0 Variance = .565 (Based on 3,177 valid cases) RL114 easy to laugh/have good time w/fc Tell me if you strongly agree, agree, disagree, or strongly disagree with each of the following statements. It's easy for me to laugh and have a good time with (focal child). (The Q name was 'V20a'.) % Freq VALUE 0.7 25 -4 NEITHER AGREE NOR DISAGREE 41.6 1,521 1 STRONGLY AGREE 53.4 1,952 2 AGREE 3.5 129 3 DISAGREE 0.8 31 4 STRONGLY DISAGREE 7 -2 REFUSED 11 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,601 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL115 feel on edge w/fc (Do you strongly agree, agree, disagree, or strongly disagree. . .) . . .I feel on edge or tense when I'm with (focal child). (The Q name was 'V20b'.) % Freq VALUE 1.1 41 -4 NEITHER AGREE NOR DISAGREE 1.5 54 1 STRONGLY AGREE 7.3 265 2 AGREE 50.3 1,835 3 DISAGREE 39.8 1,454 4 STRONGLY DISAGREE 10 -2 REFUSED 17 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,601 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL116 fc not very interested in my life (Do you strongly agree, agree, disagree, or strongly disagree. . .) . . .(focal child) is not very interested in my life or in what happens to me. (The Q name was 'V20e'.) % Freq VALUE 1.4 50 -4 NEITHER AGREE NOR DISAGREE 2.0 72 1 STRONGLY AGREE 8.5 311 2 AGREE 54.4 1,983 3 DISAGREE 33.7 1,229 4 STRONGLY DISAGREE 11 -2 REFUSED 20 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,601 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL117 would like more influence over fc decisions (Do you strongly agree, agree, disagree, or strongly disagree. . .) . . .I would like more influence over (focal child)'s decisions. (The Q name was 'V20f'.) % Freq VALUE 2.6 96 -4 NEITHER AGREE NOR DISAGREE 2.7 98 1 STRONGLY AGREE 17.4 636 2 AGREE 56.5 2,061 3 DISAGREE 20.8 759 4 STRONGLY DISAGREE 11 -2 REFUSED 15 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,601 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL118 fc is loving/affectionate child (Do you strongly agree, agree, disagree, or strongly disagree. . .) . . .(focal child) is a loving and affectionate person. (The Q name was 'V20g'.) % Freq VALUE 1.4 51 -4 NEITHER AGREE NOR DISAGREE 40.7 1,485 1 STRONGLY AGREE 52.8 1,927 2 AGREE 4.5 163 3 DISAGREE 0.6 23 4 STRONGLY DISAGREE 9 -2 REFUSED 18 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,601 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL119 fc is often critical of me (Do you strongly agree, agree, disagree, strongly disagree. . .) . . .(focal child) is often critical of me. (The Q name was 'V20h'.) % Freq VALUE 1.3 49 -4 NEITHER AGREE NOR DISAGREE 1.7 60 1 STRONGLY AGREE 11.5 416 2 AGREE 60.1 2,184 3 DISAGREE 25.4 923 4 STRONGLY DISAGREE 9 -2 REFUSED 35 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,601 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL120 happy w/ how well fc did in school These next questions are about how happy you are with the various aspects of (focal child)'s life. For the following questions, tell me whether you are extremely unhappy, somewhat unhappy, somewhat happy, or extremely happy. How happy are you with. . . . . .how (focal child) has done in school? (The Q name was 'V22a'.) % Freq VALUE 0.5 20 -7 DOESN'T CARE/NOT INTERESTED/NOT INVOLVED 0.2 9 -4 NEITHER UNHAPPY OR HAPPY 5.9 215 1 EXTREMELY UNHAPPY 12.9 473 2 SOMEWHAT UNHAPPY 32.2 1,178 3 SOMEWHAT HAPPY 48.1 1,758 4 EXTREMELY HAPPY 9 -2 REFUSED 14 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,601 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL121 happy w/ fc boy/girlfriend (How happy are you with...) ...(his/her) (boy/girl)friend? (Are you extremely unhappy, somewhat unhappy, somewhat happy, or extremely happy?) (The Q name was 'V22c'.) % Freq VALUE 26.0 635 -7 HAS NO GIRL/BOYFRIEND 2.4 58 -4 NEITHER UNHAPPY OR HAPPY 6.5 158 1 EXTREMELY UNHAPPY 11.9 290 2 SOMEWHAT UNHAPPY 32.3 788 3 SOMEWHAT HAPPY 21.0 514 4 EXTREMELY HAPPY 17 -2 REFUSED 78 -1 DON'T KNOW 4,739 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL122 happy w/ fc age got married (How happy are you with...) ... (his/her) decision to get married? (Are you extremely unhappy, somewhat unhappy, somewhat happy, or extremely happy?) (The Q name was 'V22e'.) % Freq VALUE 1.0 13 -4 NEITHER UNHAPPY OR HAPPY 6.1 78 1 EXTREMELY UNHAPPY 8.8 112 2 SOMEWHAT UNHAPPY 30.9 394 3 SOMEWHAT HAPPY 53.2 679 4 EXTREMELY HAPPY 16 -2 REFUSED 17 -1 DON'T KNOW 5,968 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL123 happy w/ fc choice of spouse (How happy are you with...) ...(his/her) choice of a (husband/wife)? (Are you extremely unhappy, somewhat unhappy, somewhat happy, or extremely happy?) (The Q name was 'V22f'.) % Freq VALUE 1.1 14 -4 NEITHER UNHAPPY OR HAPPY 7.4 94 1 EXTREMELY UNHAPPY 8.0 102 2 SOMEWHAT UNHAPPY 29.0 370 3 SOMEWHAT HAPPY 54.5 694 4 EXTREMELY HAPPY 16 -2 REFUSED 19 -1 DON'T KNOW 5,968 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL124 happy w/ fc occupation/carreer (How happy are you with...) ...the occupation or career (he/she) wants? (Are you extremely unhappy, somewhat unhappy, somewhat happy, or extremely happy?) (The Q name was 'V22j'.) % Freq VALUE 2.3 82 -4 NEITHER UNHAPPY OR HAPPY 3.7 134 1 EXTREMELY UNHAPPY 9.8 350 2 SOMEWHAT UNHAPPY 38.1 1,369 3 SOMEWHAT HAPPY 46.1 1,654 4 EXTREMELY HAPPY 9 -2 REFUSED 58 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,621 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL125 how likely to talk to fc if depressed How likely would you be to talk with (focal child) if you felt depressed or unhappy? Would you say you definitely would not, probably would not, there is about a 50-50 chance, you probably would, or definitely would talk to (focal child)? (The Q name was 'V23a'.) % Freq VALUE 4.8 174 1 DEFINITELY WOULD NOT 13.6 496 2 PROBABLY NOT 22.9 837 3 ABOUT A 50-50 CHANCE 25.9 944 4 PROBABLY WOULD 32.9 1,200 5 DEFINITELY WOULD 11 -2 REFUSED 14 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,601 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases Min = 1 Mean = 3.685 Max = 5 Std Dev = 1.196 Median = 4 Variance = 1.431 (Based on 3,651 valid cases) RL126 how likely to talk to fc if decision (Would you say you definitely would not, probably would not, there is about a 50-50 chance, you probably would, or definitely would talk to (focal child)?) How likely would you be to talk with (focal child) if you had a major decision to make? (The Q name was 'V23b'.) % Freq VALUE 4.6 169 1 DEFINITELY NOT 11.7 425 2 PROBABLY NOT 18.2 665 3 ABOUT A 50-50 CHANCE 30.1 1,097 4 PROBABLY WOULD 35.4 1,292 5 DEFINITELY WOULD 10 -2 REFUSED 18 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,601 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases Min = 1 Mean = 3.800 Max = 5 Std Dev = 1.175 Median = 4 Variance = 1.380 (Based on 3,648 valid cases) RL127 can not find this set of questions in the codebook There are various ways that parents try to influence the behavior of their children. How likely are you to do each of the following things to influence (focal child)? For each of the following, please tell me if you definitely would not do it, you probably would not, there is a 50-50 chance you would, you probably would, or you definitely would do it. How likely would you be to offer or withhold money? (Would you say you definitely would not do it, you probably would not, there is a 50-50 chance, you probably would, or you definitely would do it.) (The Q name was 'V24a'.) % Freq VALUE 35.9 1,299 1 DEFINITELY WOULD NOT DO IT 23.5 852 2 PROBABLY WOULD NOT DO IT 17.1 619 3 50-50 CHANCE 15.3 554 4 PROBABLY WOULD DO IT 8.3 299 5 DEFINITELY WOULD DO IT 14 -2 REFUSED 39 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,601 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases Min = 1 Mean = 2.366 Max = 5 Std Dev = 1.323 Median = 2 Variance = 1.751 (Based on 3,623 valid cases) RL128 Would you say you definitely would not do it, you probably would not, (Would you say you definitely would not do it, you probably would not, there is a 50-50 chance, you probably would, or you definitely would do it.) How likely would you be to show hurt or disappointment? (The Q name was 'V24b'.) % Freq VALUE 13.5 487 1 DEFINITELY WOULD NOT DO IT 23.4 847 2 PROBABLY WOULD NOT DO IT 23.9 866 3 50-50 CHANCE 27.8 1,005 4 PROBABLY WOULD DO IT 11.5 415 5 DEFINITELY WOULD DO IT 12 -2 REFUSED 44 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,601 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases Min = 1 Mean = 3.004 Max = 5 Std Dev = 1.228 Median = 3 Variance = 1.509 (Based on 3,620 valid cases) RL130 How likely would you be to ask someone else to talk to (him/her)? How likely would you be to ask someone else to talk to (him/her)? (Would you say you definitely would not do it, you probably would not, there is a 50-50 chance, you probably would, or you definitely would do it.) (The Q name was 'V24j'.) % Freq VALUE 0.0 0 1 DEFINITELY WOULD NOT DO IT 0.0 0 2 PROBABLY WOULD NOT DO IT 0.0 0 3 50-50 CHANCE 0.0 0 4 PROBABLY WOULD DO IT 0.0 0 5 DEFINITELY WOULD DO IT 7,277 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL131 Would you say you definitely would not do it, you probably would not, (Would you say you definitely would not do it, you probably would not, there is a 50-50 chance, you probably would, or you definitely would do it.) How likely would you be to bring up the topic at every opportunity until (he/she) goes along? (The Q name was 'V24k'.) % Freq VALUE 38.5 1,400 1 DEFINITELY WOULD NOT DO IT 39.3 1,426 2 PROBABLY WOULD NOT DO IT 13.0 471 3 50-50 CHANCE 6.4 231 4 PROBABLY WOULD DO IT 2.9 104 5 DEFINITELY WOULD DO IT 11 -2 REFUSED 33 -1 DON'T KNOW 3,601 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases Min = 1 Mean = 1.957 Max = 5 Std Dev = 1.013 Median = 2 Variance = 1.026 (Based on 3,632 valid cases) RLAGE How old is (focal child)? How old is (focal child)? (The Q name was 'V25skip1'.) % Freq VALUE 7,277 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL132 rate how having fc here works Now I'd like to ask you about (focal child) living with you. Taking things all together, on a scale from 0 to 10, where 0 means really bad and 10 means absolutely wonderful, how does having (focal child) living here work out for you? (The Q name was 'V25'.) % Freq VALUE 1.2 8 0 REALLY BAD 0.1 1 1 1.2 8 2 1.7 12 3 3.4 23 4 10.8 74 5 7.0 48 6 12.2 84 7 21.3 146 8 14.7 101 9 26.4 181 10 ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL 6 -2 REFUSED 3 -1 DON'T KNOW 6,582 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases Min = 0 Mean = 7.694 Max = 10 Std Dev = 2.168 Median = 8 Variance = 4.700 (Based on 686 valid cases) RL133 fc pay anything for room/board Does (he/she) pay anything to you for room or board? (The Q name was 'V26a'.) % Freq VALUE 26.2 179 1 YES 73.8 504 2 NO 8 -2 REFUSED 4 -1 DON'T KNOW 6,582 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL134 amount paid by fc per monty How much does (he/she) pay per month? (INTERVIEWER: ENTER DOLLARS) (The Q name was 'V26b'.) % Freq VALUE 15.0 25 -9 VARIES FROM MONTH TO MONTH (ENTER RESPONSE FOLLOWED BY //) 0.6 1 30 1.2 2 40 1.8 3 50 0.6 1 70 0.6 1 75 0.6 1 80 18.6 31 100 1.2 2 120 1.2 2 125 0.6 1 140 3.0 5 150 1.2 2 175 19.8 33 200 1.2 2 240 6.6 11 250 0.6 1 265 0.6 1 280 0.6 1 299 10.2 17 300 1.2 2 330 1.2 2 350 0.6 1 360 0.6 1 363 3.6 6 400 4.8 8 500 1.2 2 600 0.6 1 750 0.6 1 800 5 -2 REFUSED 7 -1 DON'T KNOW 7,098 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL135 pay how much for fc food For each of the following things, tell me if you pay for none, some, or most of (focal child)'s expenses. . . . . .(his/her) food. (The Q name was 'V27a'.) % Freq VALUE 14.8 102 1 NONE 31.1 214 2 SOME 54.0 371 3 MOST 6 -2 REFUSED 2 -1 DON'T KNOW 6,582 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL136 pay how much for fc clothing (Do you pay for none, some, or most of. . .) . . .(his/her) clothing. (The Q name was 'V27b'.) % Freq VALUE 56.6 389 1 NONE 22.7 156 2 SOME 20.7 142 3 MOST 6 -2 REFUSED 2 -1 DON'T KNOW 6,582 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL137 pay how much for fc entertainment (Do you pay for none, some, or most of. . .) . . .(his/her) entertainment. (The Q name was 'V27c'.) % Freq VALUE 72.3 497 1 NONE 17.5 120 2 SOME 10.2 70 3 MOST 6 -2 REFUSED 2 -1 DON'T KNOW 6,582 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL138 pay how much for fc health insurance (Do you pay for none, some, or most of. . .) . . .(his/her) health care or health insurance. (The Q name was 'V27d'.) % Freq VALUE 55.5 380 1 NONE 9.9 68 2 SOME 34.6 237 3 MOST 6 -2 REFUSED 4 -1 DON'T KNOW 6,582 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases RL139 pay how much for fc transportation (Do you pay for none, some, or most of. . .) . . .(his/her) transportation. (The Q name was 'V27e'.) % Freq VALUE 59.5 409 1 NONE 18.5 127 2 SOME 22.0 151 3 MOST 6 -2 REFUSED 2 -1 DON'T KNOW 6,582 . (No Data) ----- ----- 100.0 7,277 cases