1252-1253 FO164 (k1) Next, I'd like to ask some questions about your relationship with your mother. Over the last 3 months, about how often did you see your mother? Was it: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 01 not at all, 70 6.42 02 less than once a month, 64 5.87 03 1 to 3 times a month, 175 16.06 04 about once a week, or 102 9.36 05 more than once a week? 200 18.35 07 Mother died 12 1.10 09 Currently living with mother 63 5.78 97 Refused 4 0.37 98 Don't know 4 0.37 99 Inap/No Answer 396 36.33 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1254 FO165 (k2) Over the last 3 months, about how often did you communicate with your mother by telephone or letter? Was it: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 not at all, 30 2.75 2 less than once a month, 19 1.74 3 1 to 3 times a month, 91 8.35 4 about once a week, or 174 15.96 5 more than once a week? 295 27.06 6 Mother died 5 0.46 7 Refused 0 0.00 8 Don't know 5 0.46 9 Inap/No Answer 471 43.21 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 CKPT:FO166 . . a. If focal child has not seen and has not communicated with his/her mother in the past 3 months, GO TO FO180 b. If focal child has not seen his/her mother in the past 3 months, GO TO CKPT:FO168 . . 1255 FO166 (k5a) Over the last 3 months, about how often have you spent time with your mother in leisure activities, working on something together, or just having private talks? Would you say: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 not at all, 90 8.26 2 less than once a month, 95 8.72 3 1 to 3 times a month, 257 23.58 4 about once a week, or 253 23.21 5 more than once a week? 301 27.61 6 Mother is deceased 2 0.18 7 Refused 0 0.00 8 Don't know 3 0.28 9 Inap/No Answer 89 8.17 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1256 FO167 (K5a) Next I'd like to ask some questions about your relationship with your mother. Over the last 3 months, about how often have you spent time with your mother in leisure activities, working on something together, or just having private talks? Would you say: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 not at all, 90 8.26 2 less than once a month, 95 8.72 3 1 to 3 times a month, 257 23.58 4 about once a week, or 253 23.21 5 more than once a week? 301 27.61 6 Mother is deceased 0 0.00 7 Refused 2 0.18 8 Don't know 3 0.28 9 Inap/No Answer 89 8.17 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 CKPT:FO168 . . a. If focal child did not know or refused to say when he/she last saw mother, GO TO FO168 b. If focal child did not know, refused to say, or left blank when he/she last communicted with mother by telephone or letter, GO TO FO168 c. If focal child hasn't seen and hasn't communicated with his/her mother in last 3 months, GO TO FO180 . . 1257 FO168 (k6a) In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements about how you dress? @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Yes 120 11.01 2 No 926 84.95 6 Hasn't had any contact with mother 15 1.38 in past 3 months 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 0 0.00 9 Inap/No Answer 28 2.57 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 CKPT:FO169 - If focal child is married or cohabiting, GO TO FO170 1258 FO169 (k6b) In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements about who you were dating? @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Yes 110 10.09 2 No 639 58.62 5 Haven't dated in last three months 4 0.37 6 Hasn't had any contact with mother 0 0.00 in past 3 months 7 Refused 2 0.18 8 Don't know 0 0.00 9 Inap/No Answer 335 30.73 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1259 FO170 (k6c) (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements): About your friends? @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Yes 143 13.12 2 No 902 82.75 6 Hasn't had any contact with mother 1 0.09 in past 3 months 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 0 0.00 9 Inap/No Answer 43 3.94 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1260 FO171 (k6d) (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements): About your getting a job or a better job? @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Yes 226 20.73 2 No 819 75.14 6 Hasn't had any contact with mother 0 0.00 in past 3 months 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 0 0.00 9 Inap/No Answer 44 4.04 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1261 FO172 (k6e) (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements): About your sexual behavior? @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Yes 62 5.69 2 No 982 90.09 6 Hasn't had any contact with mother 0 0.00 in past 3 months 7 Refused 2 0.18 8 Don't know 0 0.00 9 Inap/No Answer 44 4.04 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1262 FO173 (k6f) (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements): About your drinking, smoking, or drug use? @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Yes 191 17.52 2 No 854 78.35 6 Hasn't had any contact with mother 0 0.00 in past 3 months 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 0 0.00 9 Inap/No Answer 44 4.04 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1263 FO174 (k6g) (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements): About money? @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Yes 317 29.08 2 No 728 66.79 6 Hasn't had any contact with mother 0 0.00 in past 3 months 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 0 0.00 9 Inap/No Answer 44 4.04 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 CKPT:FO175 - If response to focal child's communication by letter or phone to mother in past 3 months is not blank, GO TO CKPT:FO177 1264 FO175 (k6h) (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements): About your helping around the house? @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Yes 219 20.09 2 No 227 20.83 6 Hasn't had any contact with mother 0 0.00 in past 3 months 7 Refused 0 0.00 8 Don't know 1 0.09 9 Inap/No Answer 643 58.99 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1265 FO176 (k6i) (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements): About how late you stay out at night? @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Yes 112 10.28 2 No 334 30.64 6 Hasn't had any contact with mother 0 0.00 in past 3 months 7 Refused 0 0.00 8 Don't know 1 0.09 9 Inap/No Answer 643 58.99 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 CKPT:FO177 . . a. If focal child is married or cohabiting, GO TO FO177 b. GO TO CKPT:FO178 . . 1266 FO177 (k6j) (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements): About your (husband/wife/partner)? @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Yes 51 4.68 2 No 233 21.38 6 Hasn't had any contact with mother 0 0.00 in past 3 months 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 2 0.18 9 Inap/No Answer 803 73.67 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 CKPT:FO178 . . a. If focal child has given birth to/fathered at least one child, GO TO FO178 b. GO TO FO179 . . 1267 FO178 (k6k) (In the last three months, have you and your mother had open disagreements): About raising your children? @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Yes 58 5.32 2 No 159 14.59 6 Hasn't had any contact with mother 0 0.00 in past 3 months 7 Refused 0 0.00 8 Don't know 0 0.00 9 Inap/No Answer 873 80.09 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1268 FO179 (k9) During the last 3 months, how often did you argue or fight or have a lot of difficulty with your mother? Was it: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 not at all, 483 44.31 2 less than once a month, 279 25.60 3 1 to 3 times a month, 236 21.65 4 about once a week, or 46 4.22 5 more than once a week? 0 0.00 6 Hasn't had any contact with mother in past 3 months 0 0.00 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 1 0.09 9 Inap/No Answer 44 4.04 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1269-1270 FO180 (k10) Taking things all together, on a scale from 0 to 10, where 0 is really bad and 10 is absolutely perfect, how would you describe your relationship with your mother? @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 00 Really bad 4 0.37 01 2 0.18 02 9 0.83 03 17 1.56 04 13 1.19 05 42 3.85 06 43 3.94 07 144 13.21 08 256 23.49 09 283 25.96 10 Absolutely perfect 248 22.75 90 R has absolutely no involvement 5 0.46 with mother 97 Refused 0 0.00 98 Don't know 4 0.37 99 Inap/No Answer 20 1.83 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1271 FO181 (k14a) Tell me if you strongly agree, agree, disagree, or strongly disagree with each of the following statements. It's easy for me to laugh and have a good time with my mother. Do you: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 strongly agree, 442 40.55 2 agree, 552 50.64 3 disagree, or 55 5.05 4 strongly disagree? 6 0.55 5 Neither agree nor disagree 8 0.73 6 R has absolutely no involvement 0 0.00 with mother 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 1 0.09 9 Inap/No Answer 25 2.29 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1272 FO182 (k14b) I feel on edge or tense when I'm with my mother. @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Strongly agree 15 1.38 2 Agree 119 10.92 3 Disagree 527 48.35 4 Strongly disagree 385 35.32 5 Neither agree nor disagree 15 1.38 6 R has absolutely no involvement 3 0.28 with mother 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 0 0.00 9 Inap/No Answer 25 2.29 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1273 FO183 (k14c) I am able to discuss disagreements calmly with my mother. @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Strongly agree 228 20.92 2 Agree 569 52.20 3 Disagree 185 16.97 4 Strongly disagree 46 4.22 5 Neither agree nor disagree 31 2.84 6 R has absolutely no involvement 1 0.09 with mother 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 1 0.09 9 Inap/No Answer 28 2.57 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1274 FO184 (k14e) My mother is not very interested in my life or in what happens to me. @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Strongly agree 16 1.47 2 Agree 24 2.20 3 Disagree 429 39.36 4 Strongly disagree 583 53.49 5 Neither agree nor disagree 7 0.64 6 R has absolutely no involvement 0 0.00 with mother 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 1 0.09 9 Inap/No Answer 29 2.66 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1275 FO185 (k14f) My mother would like more influence over my decisions. @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Strongly agree 86 7.89 2 Agree 314 28.81 3 Disagree 470 43.12 4 Strongly disagree 157 14.40 5 Neither agree nor disagree 30 2.75 6 R has absolutely no involvement 0 0.00 with mother 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 3 0.28 9 Inap/No Answer 29 2.66 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1276 FO186 (k14g) My mother is a loving and affectionate parent. @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Strongly agree 526 48.26 2 Agree 479 43.94 3 Disagree 35 3.21 4 Strongly disagree 7 0.64 5 Neither agree nor disagree 10 0.92 6 R has absolutely no involvement 1 0.09 with mother 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 2 0.18 9 Inap/No Answer 29 2.66 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1277 FO187 (k14h) My mother is often critical of me. @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Strongly agree 59 5.41 2 Agree 291 26.70 3 Disagree 487 44.68 4 Strongly disagree 198 18.17 5 Neither agree nor disagree 18 1.65 6 R has absolutely no involvement 0 0.00 with mother 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 6 0.55 9 Inap/No Answer 30 2.75 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1278 FO188 (k14i) My mother praises or admires things I've done. @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 Strongly agree 304 27.89 2 Agree 648 59.45 3 Disagree 80 7.34 4 Strongly disagree 9 0.83 5 Neither agree nor disagree 16 1.47 6 R has absolutely no involvement 0 0.00 with mother 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 2 0.18 9 Inap/No Answer 30 2.75 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1279 FO189 (k15a) How does your mother feel about how well you've done in school? Would you say she is: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 extremely unhappy, 36 3.30 2 somewhat unhappy, 175 16.06 3 somewhat happy, or 440 40.37 4 extremely happy? 385 35.32 5 Neither happy nor unhappy 16 1.47 6 R has absolutely no involvement 0 0.00 with mother 7 Refused 0 0.00 8 Don't know 8 0.73 9 Inap/No Answer 30 2.75 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 CKPT:FO190 - If focal child doesn't have a steady boyfriend/girlfriend, GO TO CKPT:FO191 1280-1281 FO190 (k15b) How does your mother feel about the (boyfriend/ girlfriend) you're going steady with? Would you say she is: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 01 extremely unhappy, 9 0.83 02 somewhat unhappy, 17 1.56 03 somewhat happy, or 152 13.94 04 extremely happy? 157 14.40 05 Neither happy nor unhappy 11 1.01 90 mother doesn't know about (boyfriend/girlfriend) 13 1.19 96 R has absolutely no involvement 0 0.00 with mother 97 Refused 0 0.00 98 Don't know 4 0.37 99 Inap/No Answer 727 66.70 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 CKPT:FO191 - If focal child isn't cohabiting, GO TO CKPT:FO192 1282 FO191 (k15c) How does your mother feel about your decision to live with a partner without being married? Would you say she is: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 extremely unhappy, 6 0.55 2 somewhat unhappy, 20 1.83 3 somewhat happy, or 58 5.32 4 extremely happy? 21 1.93 5 Neither happy nor unhappy 17 1.56 7 Refused 0 0.00 8 Don't know 1 0.09 9 Inap/No Answer 967 88.72 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 CKPT:FO192 - If focal child has never been married, GO TO FO194 1283 FO192 (k15d) How does your mother feel about your decision to get married at the age you did? Would you say she is: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 extremely unhappy, 24 2.20 2 somewhat unhappy, 22 2.02 3 somewhat happy, or 85 7.80 4 extremely happy? 64 5.87 5 Neither happy nor unhappy 4 0.37 6 R has absolutely no involvement 0 0.00 with mother 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 0 0.00 9 Inap/No Answer 890 81.65 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1284 FO193 (k15e) How does your mother feel about your choice of a (husband/wife)? Would you say she is: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 extremely unhappy, 24 2.20 2 somewhat unhappy, 12 1.10 3 somewhat happy, or 61 5.60 4 extremely happy? 99 9.08 5 Neither happy nor unhappy 2 0.18 6 R has absolutely no involvement 0 0.00 with mother 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 1 0.09 9 Inap/No Answer 890 81.65 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1285 FO194 (k15f) How does your mother feel about the occupation or career that you want? Would you say she is: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 extremely unhappy, 14 1.28 2 somewhat unhappy, 68 6.24 3 somewhat happy, or 480 44.04 4 extremely happy? 429 39.36 5 Neither happy nor unhappy 35 3.21 6 R has absolutely no involvement 0 0.00 with mother 7 Refused 0 0.00 8 Don't know 34 3.12 9 Inap/No Answer 30 2.75 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1286 FO195 (k16) How likely is it that you would talk to your mother if you felt depressed or unhappy? Would you say you: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 definitely wouldn't, 55 5.05 2 probably wouldn't, 115 10.55 3 50-50 chance, 205 18.81 4 probably would, or 316 28.99 5 definitely would talk to your mother? 366 33.58 6 R has absolutely no involvement 0 0.00 with mother 7 Refused 0 0.00 8 Don't know 3 0.28 9 Inap/No Answer 30 2.75 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1287 FO196 (k17) How likely is it that you would talk to your mother if you had a major decision to make? Would you say you: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 definitely wouldn't, 34 3.12 2 probably wouldn't, 64 5.87 3 50-50 chance, 149 13.67 4 probably would, or 304 27.89 5 definitely would talk to your mother? 506 46.42 6 R has absolutely no involvement 0 0.00 with mother 7 Refused 0 0.00 8 Don't know 3 0.28 9 Inap/No Answer 30 2.75 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1288 FO197 (k18a) There are various ways that parents try to influence the behavior of grown-up children. How likely is your mother to offer or withhold money if she wanted to influence you? Would you say she: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 definitely wouldn't, 459 42.11 2 probably wouldn't, 242 22.20 3 50-50 chance, 134 12.29 4 probably would, or 127 11.65 5 definitely would offer or withhold money? 81 7.43 6 R has absolutely no involvement 0 0.00 with mother 7 Refused 3 0.28 8 Don't know 14 1.28 9 Inap/No Answer 30 2.75 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1289 FO198 (k18b) How likely is she to show that she is hurt or disappointed? Would you say she: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 definitely wouldn't, 59 5.41 2 probably wouldn't, 109 10.00 3 50-50 chance, 158 14.50 4 probably would, or 322 29.54 5 definitely would show that 396 36.33 she is hurt or disappointed? 6 R has absolutely no involvement 0 0.00 with mother 7 Refused 2 0.18 8 Don't know 14 1.28 9 Inap/No Answer 30 2.75 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00 1290 FO199 (k18e) How likely is she to bring up the topic at every opportunity until you go along if she wanted to influence you? Would you say she: @ Unwt Wgted Freq Pct 1 definitely wouldn't, 227 20.83 2 probably wouldn't, 273 25.05 3 50-50 chance, 200 18.35 4 probably would, or 189 17.34 5 definitely would bring up the topic 155 14.22 at every opportunity? 6 R has absolutely no involvement with mother 0 0.00 7 Refused 1 0.09 8 Don't know 15 1.38 9 Inap/No Answer 30 2.75 OTHER 0 0.00 Total 1090 100.00